Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate

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Some women who were determined to leave their abusive partners did so with the help of moving companies.  Others were helped in ways you may have never thought of!  So if you are not in an abusive relationship and may be in business or affiliated with a civic group, consider giving some time, money or service to those who want to move on with their lives. For victims, check with companies in your local area who may help or ask a social worker or domestic violence counselor to assist with whatever your needs might be.  You never know who might be willing to help you, so put aside pride and secrets and step out on faith! The following is a list of businesses whose good deeds helped so many as well as ideas.  Be sure to check the location before contacting these companies or any others.  Also ask for referrals if they are no longer offering their services. 1.   Meathead Movers  assisted women by helping them move. 2.  “A Pele da Flor” (The Skin of the Flower) is about giving hurt

It happens, you get hot and heavy with someone and overlook all the subtle and blatant signs you are dealing with someone whose mind is not wrapped too tight.  So let's go over the list, whether it applies to you or not, this will help you break your mind from the delusions and see reality.  Your choice to stay or go. 1.  A partner was either frequently too late or too early during your early encounters.  There was little concern and apologies gradually stopped or never occurred. 2.  You caught him or her in some half-truths or bold lies.  Excuse after excuse was given. 3.  After spoiling you initially, he or she didn't bother too much to reach into his or her wallet or purse to pay for something without you having to ask (even after you told him or her you were having some financial issues). 4.  A partner spent much time badmouthing every ex he or she had been with.  The blame was often pointed in everyone's direction but his or her's. 5.  You often covered u

Subscribe to YouTube Channel: NM Enterprise 7 Whether you are experiencing dating violence , being emotionally abused in a marriage, or something else is happening, the issues might be secrets that you just can't share.  You don't want anyone to know you might be going through other trials as well from children to job, just know you are not alone and that God is waiting on you to come to Him.  Sit quiet long enough to regain your strength, listen to sound instruction, and begin to walk in freedom.  No matter the kind of emotional abuse , physical issues or the type of person who is doing these things, if it is a secret that is affecting your mental well-being and physical safety, it is time to do something about it!

You didn't know that an abusive man had a demanding list inside his mind on what you were supposed to be to him, how you were to behave and what you were to provide if he did A, B, and C for you.  But you, like other women of his past, learned during yet another emotional argument when his nasty attitude showed up complete with name-calling and ugly thoughts were spit out. After the disputing, you might feel those familiar feelings once again regretting ever meeting the mean-spirited man. Repeated arrogant behaviors (i.e. claiming to be better, smarter, and having more than you) along with illogical fantasies will wreck havoc in the short and long term on the relationship and the victim's mind. Men, who are use to getting their way whether at home or elsewhere, believe they can have it all anytime they want, and wish to be adored by almost everyone they meet.  These kind of men (usually somewhat wealthy, once quite attractive or still may be, affluent, or highly-educated) p

Shepherd's Door, domestic violence resource center, invites you to join us for a great afternoon of education, empowerment, encouragement and enlightening.  We welcome you to Shepherd's Door 7th Annual Women, Wealth, Warriors Luncheon. Our t heme this year is focusing on w omen e ntrepreneurs. The afternoon will include a panel of seven women who are the owners of successful businesses. Come out, hear and be inspired to start your own business.  If you have a gift or talent and need encouragement to take your business to the next level you do not want to miss hearing these dynamic women share their triumphs and successes. The Host for the afternoon will be Sunda Croonquist, Actor, Comedian and Writer of   A Kosher Soul Food Cookbook , Moderator is Coleen Sullivan/KABC7, Anchorwoman, Guest Speaker the inspiring  Shamallia Pennington Author and Writer of Waiting on God to Waiting in God My Faith Journey , Nicholl McGuire, Freelance Writer and Content Marketing Manager Offer

Victims will go around the domestic violence wheel again and again and again only to end up back where they started, believing the manipulator's lies.  Isn't this how they got caught in the first place? The abuser always makes promises that eventually he or she doesn't keep. The abuser lies to get more sex, money, and other things to benefit self. The abuser claims that all will be fine (he or she doesn't believe this) just buying time. The abuser has already alerted others the relationship is coming to an end. The abuser is looking or already has his or her replacement. Meanwhile, the victim feels a bit empowered because he or she busted a partner cheating, lying, stealing, or doing some other despicable things.  A trusted family member or friend is called and the only relief one receives is more of the same, "You are better than this...You need to end the relationship... I hate seeing you this way." Another big argument with threats, more truth

Welcoming anyone who has finally gotten free out of an emotionally or physically abusive relationship . Do you have information about a place in your area that has been helpful?  Maybe you can provide tips for others on things like: what to do when considering a divorce, where to go, how to manage conflict, how to handle children during tough times and more.  Guest bloggers, video makers, nonprofit representatives and others contact nichollmcguire@gmail.com with links, videos, press releases and more.  Your information will be featured on this site or leave in comment sections.