When You Distrust Him/Her/Them: Test the Spirits
Being in a relationship that is headed for break up isn't easy especially when children, finances, and other people and things are involved. But people who have been victims or survivors of domestic violence know that the fight for freedom is well worth it and some battles you will win and others you might lose. Your abusive partner might have a long history of lying, cheating and stealing whether the situations were little or big, his or her integrity is put into question often. When feelings like this surface, you will need to test the spirits. People will claim that they love, trust, care, and want a future with you, but if deep inside you aren't convinced, it's time to get your hands dirty, it's time to ask the hard questions. A partner or relative may or may not react negatively to your tests. But you will never know about one's heart, true intentions, or thoughts when you have a closed mouth. I learned this the hard way. Having spent ye...