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In Denial, Isolated - When the Abused Claims It's Not What You Think
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She doesn't believe that she is being abused because it doesn't feel like it, "Isn't abuse painful, ugly, and crazy? Not me," she thinks. "So what that he is controlling sometimes and big deal he has a personality disorder, I love him." But what if this victim's denial is affecting others around her? What if the pain of her abusive situation has somehow skipped over her and onto those who love her, what then? Abuse is abuse whether it looks or feels painful or not. A man who isolates a woman from her sons, daughters and other relatives and friends is hurting her whether she feels the anguish or not. She most likely convinced herself that all is okay just to tolerate being in a relationship with her abuser. A woman who has been controlled for far too many years to count has a mind that tends to go crazy at times, whether she feels it or not, just like her controller. The two battle...