The Wish for the Pain to Stop
Holiday seasons are being utilized for all the wrong reasons when it comes to volatile relationships . Buy one's abuser as much as he or she can and hopefully no abuse will occur, the girlfriend thinks. Gather favorite relatives and friends around and maybe a spouse will be on his or her best behavior. Reach out to travel planners to make an abusive husband's dreams come true. Oh the victims, what great lengths they will go to appease an abusive partner. I recall the money, time and energy I spent in relationships with verbally and physically abusive loved ones. I also remember wishing the pain would stop at least for awhile if only I could make them smile. Instead of buying love, what I needed to do was address my pain. The nagging feeling on the inside that a cheater was at it again. The stomach pains from once again having an emotional outburst with a relative because I exposed one's lies. The soreness in my bones from fighting an angry fiance. It took mult