Part of Laboring to Love Someone is the Challenge of Getting Them to See the Truth
Obsessed with power and control, a mean spirited man or woman refuses to agree on anything even when it just might cost them everything. In their minds, they feel good knowing they could do the right thing, but they refuse. They covertly or overtly enjoy seeing others suffer. Learn to work around the abusers in your life. You really don't need them as much as they would like for you to believe.