The Guilt-ridden, Ashamed Abusive Spouse
For every striking blow, curse word spoken, and silent treatment tactic used, a guilt-ridden and ashamed filled spouse will reap what he or she has sown one day. Eventually what was in darkness comes out into the light. Cheating ways whether emotional or physical shows up with an unwanted pregnancy or worse incurable illness. Drunkenness, drug use, lies and cover ups don't stay quiet for all eternity. Ancestry reveals the guilt and shame of past generations of manipulative and abusive great grandfathers, their sons and their sons' sons and so on. For some reading this, they are presently actors and actresses in a life story that will one day be judged by upcoming generations as "sad, poor, bad, ridiculous, stupid...Why would he/she allow such things?" Future offspring will say. The emotionally and physically abusive spouse believes he or she is the king or queen of his or her castle. They use power and control behaviors to get their way and expect all in cont