Oftentimes victims in bad relationships run away from their problems. They resort to blaming others for all their issues. From something not going right at an event to the attitude a partner gives them behind closed doors. However, when there isn't anyone or anything to blame, then what?
Who is prematurely aging? Who is staying financially broke? Who's heart broken? Who needs someone to rescue he or she from one bad decision after another?
When we face the fact that we are the one with issues, we can begin to walk toward some healing. The time will never be right to emotionally withdraw from someone. A bit of sex and a good time reveling in some entertainment and great food with a difficult person is nothing more than yet another distraction to keep you from leaving a miserable relationship.
People around you are distancing themselves because they know sooner or later the volcano will erupt (yet again) and they don't want to be a part of anymore destruction. Wake up!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of many books including: Socially Sweet Privately Cruel Abusive Men and She's Crazy. Scroll this site and click on links.
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