First Time Hit: It Happened, He/She Hit You, Now What?
You may have been one of the few who came to this site in shock, it happened! You were hit for the first time by someone you trusted, a person who you thought loved you so much. "How could he/she do that?" you think. Right now you might hurt so bad over the incident--can't eat or sleep well. You don't feel like you can tell anyone. At this point in the relationship, it really doesn't matter what caused the fight, the point is your partner hit you, now what? Does this mean that the relationship is over? Do you have to go to the police? Will you need to take photos of your bruise? What do you think? Every situation is different and every reaction doesn't apply to all situations. However, the best advice is never stay in any relationship when one has made up in his or her mind to hit your body because he or she was so angry. No excuses! "So you hit me because I upset you? You leave a mark on my body, because you can't control yourself!?