Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate

Obsessed with power and control, a mean spirited man or woman refuses to agree on anything even when it just might cost them everything.  In their minds, they feel good knowing they could do the right thing, but they refuse.  They covertly or overtly enjoy seeing others suffer. Learn to work around the abusers in your life. You really don't need them as much as they would like for you to believe.

Behind the Scenes of Many Dysfunctional Relationships They usually don't start that way, but then again, maybe.  Too blind to lust  they don't see the light. He didn't like the way she talked to him (even when he was in the wrong about things he did or didn't do.) Pouting, silence, cursing, talking about her negatively behind her back.  "B-tches!  All the same." She knew his thoughts just by the way he acted around her so she did the same. This time she was at fault.  "Two wrongs don't make it right." Complaints about the little things that grow into bigger things from debt to children. "You always want to do something with your family!  Who is that on your phone? What are you looking at on the computer?  You are such a liar!  Why do I put up with this sh-t!" Children witness the arguments, they cry.  Couple yelling.  Children say, "I wish they would stop." He lied about something again and so she caugh

When was the last time you smiled genuinely in public and stayed content for longer than a few hours.  Did you experience that happiness when your partner was around or when he or she was away?  What about the things you once enjoyed prior to meeting your partner, are you still doing them and do they continue to bring you peace? It is unfortunate, but many people in challenging relationships secretly are unhappy because they have learned there lives have been changed upside down (and not for good) by mean-spirited, selfish and downright evil men and women.  Their lives have been ruined in so many ways by abusive people that it has taken years for some survivors to get minds, bodies, finances, property, and more back! The following are signs that you may already be in a situation or headed in a direction where your life may be significantly impacted for the worse by an abusive mate. 1)  You are often depressed. Yes you have your good days, but they don't last for long due