This video shows that women abuse men too, and often get away with it
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The Know-it- All Victim - She Knows Everything, But Does Nothing
We have all been there and done that, thought we knew everything about everyone in our circle and so we defended them. We fought long, hard, and ended up looking quite stupid in the end! Women, who are victims of abusive men, don't want to believe the truth and don't want you handing them any mirrors either! The know-it-all victim fights with mom, her best friend, and even her children about her no-good husband or boyfriend. "But I love him...so what! I know already..." she says to those who really wish she would go on and get a life away from her miserable partner. Yet she insists, "Things will get better...and you don't know him like I do." Victims brag about the things they claim to know already. Like the time(s) a partner cheated, lied, abused, used, and did other things. They have advice for everyone else, but can't figure out how to have any personal peace. Living with and sexing an abusive man (or woman) will drive you cra...
So You are Defending Your Emotional or Physical Abuser? We Don't Trust You
Why did six police officers show up when the call came through from a neighbor that I needed help and that my abuser was trying to kill me? For over two decades, I said nothing about this small detail, the reason was simple, those officers didn't know who or what was really behind our apartment door prior to entering. They didn't know if I would attempt to attack them for apprehending him. They didn't know if a gun, knife or anything else was being used in our fighting. In my case, it was a hot iron. They had no clue whether I or he would go off on everyone answering that call. They just didn't know. The paramedics showed up too and they were very watchful and quick to remove me out of the scene. Some of you, those who are still being emotionally and/or physically abused, might talk about how you don't like a lot about a partner with relatives and friends from the way he or she talks to you to how ...
Don't Deny the Trials - Abuse is Just What it Is
They make excuses for it. They lie about it. They say it won't happen again. They tell family and friends it isn't what you think. Abuse. Victims come in many different colors, social classes, and more. They don't want to believe they are being emotionally and physically beaten with or without words, hands, and other things. "What? I don't know what you are talking about! I am fine. Leave me alone. I have dealt with this for a long time. I know how to handle him..." the victim defends her sickness. In love with a man who plays mind games, makes false promises, isolates her, cheats, steals, lies, and tells her how bad she is when he feels down. Don't deny the trials you are in or have been going through for quite some time. You might live with them for now, but you are to grow from them. Your eyes are focused on freedom, not bondage. The survivors know this all too well. True sur...
