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How Do You Know When It's Time to Go?
When you have taken all that you can take. Everything on your body hurts. You can't smile anymore. When no one seems to care anymore whether you live or die. When the children warn you about your behavior. When relatives are fearful he might kill you. When you can't do the things you like to do without worry. It's time to go. Nicholl McGuire
His Money, His Stuff, His World and Where Do You Fit? Abusive Relationships
She went snooping yet again in search of something that proves he was with another woman the night before, and she found it. But what she didn't know, is that he was standing behind her, watching, the whole time she rumbled in his bag! Uh oh... His Money When a woman agrees to be in a relationship where the man is footing the majority of the bill, she knows that she has to not only respect the head of house, but also the money as well. She can't spend the money on whatever she wants, when she wants without asking her man permission. This is why so many women make their own! Some women don't like to hear such things, but when a man takes over the finances, there are typically rules that one follows just like if a woman was the bread-winner in the household. However, in a world where women are abused every five seconds, money is scarce for many. The man controls everything and if the woman rubs her moody partner the wrong way, she risks ...
6 Things Abused Women and Men Do to Survive in Abusive Relationships
Some people may wonder why women and men remain with their toxic partners for so long. They have many reasons from children to money, but until they are ready to leave, they will settle. Settling means dealing with the emotional and/or physical abuse. Now we all know it is never a good idea to be with someone who is hurtful toward you, but sometimes women and men will put their time in, so to speak, until they are mentally and physically ready to leave. However, sometimes they never make it out of a terrible partnership alive. So what are the victims of abuse doing to stay motivated to be with a mate? 1. They busy themselves. The more projects to do, people to care for, and places to visit, the more the person in an abusive relationship will look the other way when it comes to a partner’s abuses. For some people, they become so good at running, they begin to think that all is well at home until a partner starts “loosing it” again. 2. They distract themselves fr...
