Eight Lies The Narcissist Wants You To Believe
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The Joy of Knowing You are Getting Out: A Checklist Toward Freedom from a Controlling Husband
Right now it doesn't look like it. You have been with a partner for years and have tolerated much. From the lying to the emotional and/or physical affairs or worse beatings, you know in your mind it is time to go, but when? "When" is not a question you rush to answer. One's steps to end a miserable relationship are careful, calculated, and consistent. Each step moves you closer to freedom! Check your mind. If you are no longer finding yourself hoping/wishing/waiting for something to change in the angry or abusive mate, you are well on your way toward independence. If you are still caught up in a world of fantasy, you are merely hindering yourself emotionally and physically and it will continue to feel like you will never get free. Check your heart. Still in love or like when he or she does something nice/funny/thoughtful? Time to put the sentimental emotions in a box and store them away in a closet or a shelf, but not in your heart....
