Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate

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Some women who were determined to leave their abusive partners did so with the help of moving companies.  Others were helped in ways you may have never thought of!  So if you are not in an abusive relationship and may be in business or affiliated with a civic group, consider giving some time, money or service to those who want to move on with their lives. For victims, check with companies in your local area who may help or ask a social worker or domestic violence counselor to assist with whatever your needs might be.  You never know who might be willing to help you, so put aside pride and secrets and step out on faith! The following is a list of businesses whose good deeds helped so many as well as ideas.  Be sure to check the location before contacting these companies or any others.  Also ask for referrals if they are no longer offering their services. 1.   Meathead Movers  assisted women by helping them move. 2.  “A Pele da Flor” (The S...

It happens, you get hot and heavy with someone and overlook all the subtle and blatant signs you are dealing with someone whose mind is not wrapped too tight.  So let's go over the list, whether it applies to you or not, this will help you break your mind from the delusions and see reality.  Your choice to stay or go. 1.  A partner was either frequently too late or too early during your early encounters.  There was little concern and apologies gradually stopped or never occurred. 2.  You caught him or her in some half-truths or bold lies.  Excuse after excuse was given. 3.  After spoiling you initially, he or she didn't bother too much to reach into his or her wallet or purse to pay for something without you having to ask (even after you told him or her you were having some financial issues). 4.  A partner spent much time badmouthing every ex he or she had been with.  The blame was often pointed in everyone's direction but his or her'...

Subscribe to YouTube Channel: NM Enterprise 7 Whether you are experiencing dating violence , being emotionally abused in a marriage, or something else is happening, the issues might be secrets that you just can't share.  You don't want anyone to know you might be going through other trials as well from children to job, just know you are not alone and that God is waiting on you to come to Him.  Sit quiet long enough to regain your strength, listen to sound instruction, and begin to walk in freedom.  No matter the kind of emotional abuse , physical issues or the type of person who is doing these things, if it is a secret that is affecting your mental well-being and physical safety, it is time to do something about it!

You didn't know that an abusive man had a demanding list inside his mind on what you were supposed to be to him, how you were to behave and what you were to provide if he did A, B, and C for you.  But you, like other women of his past, learned during yet another emotional argument when his nasty attitude showed up complete with name-calling and ugly thoughts were spit out. After the disputing, you might feel those familiar feelings once again regretting ever meeting the mean-spirited man. Repeated arrogant behaviors (i.e. claiming to be better, smarter, and having more than you) along with illogical fantasies will wreck havoc in the short and long term on the relationship and the victim's mind. Men, who are use to getting their way whether at home or elsewhere, believe they can have it all anytime they want, and wish to be adored by almost everyone they meet.  These kind of men (usually somewhat wealthy, once quite attractive or still may be, affluent, or highly-educated) ...