It all starts...
with a look.
An accusation.
A threat.
Telling you that what you see/feel/hear is incorrect.
Looking for others to support them on their lies, they act as if they are something special, a good person.
Sharing with family and friends that you are the crazy one, meanwhile they are the ones with the mental illness.
Blaming exes, employers, and even their own children for everything that is "wrong, bad."
They make excuses for why they do what they do and might even cry and show a bit of empathy.
They cover up, lie and isolate victims so that no one will catch wind of the truth.
They plan to pay back for pre-conceived wrong-doing, for exposing vulnerabilities, for wanting to get away from them.
They come up with clever schemes, pretending to be righteous and honest while lying even to God.
They say, "You aren't going anywhere...you need me...I love you...I still want you...I will change."
But they don't....
They don't
They don't.
Nicholl McGuire author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men, She's Crazy and other books.
Based on a book with the same title written by Nicholl McGuire, this domestic and dating violence blog offers support to anyone who is laboring to love an emotionally or physically abusive partner. Feel free to explore numerous relationship and family issues. Please be advised to seek a professional for counsel on abuse. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling, domestic abuse, and teen dating violence. Please be advised this is a public blog.
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