Women who have been hurt physically by others will not hesitate to fight. Say the right trigger words and it's World War III in their homes. This is why you, as the survivor, must learn self-control. You must not assume that the man who is yelling at you will hit you. Otherwise, if you jump the gun, so to speak, you may be the one hauled off to jail. Here are some things you could do when an argument takes place:
- Refrain from a face-to-face confrontation by allowing at least an arm distance of space between you and he.
- Communicate your concern about his being "too close to your face" or "I feel uncomfortable when you raise your voice."
- Be sure you aren't near anything that you could hurl at him.
- Watch his expressions and where his hands are placed.
You can easily determine whether this person is like the man from your past when he:
- Proceeds to take his hands to hit and/or choke you, hurt self, or throw something at or near you.
- Insults you by calling you names; rather than focus on the topic at hand.
- Threatens or intimidates you with his presence or uses an object.
- Blocks you from entering or leaving a room for long periods of time.
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