Eight Lies The Narcissist Wants You To Believe
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The Joy of Knowing You are Getting Out: A Checklist Toward Freedom from a Controlling Husband
Right now it doesn't look like it. You have been with a partner for years and have tolerated much. From the lying to the emotional and/or physical affairs or worse beatings, you know in your mind it is time to go, but when? "When" is not a question you rush to answer. One's steps to end a miserable relationship are careful, calculated, and consistent. Each step moves you closer to freedom! Check your mind. If you are no longer finding yourself hoping/wishing/waiting for something to change in the angry or abusive mate, you are well on your way toward independence. If you are still caught up in a world of fantasy, you are merely hindering yourself emotionally and physically and it will continue to feel like you will never get free. Check your heart. Still in love or like when he or she does something nice/funny/thoughtful? Time to put the sentimental emotions in a box and store them away in a closet or a shelf, but not in your heart....
On Lying: A Secret that Many Victims, Abusers Don't Want You to Know
They lie about money, where they go, who they talk to, and more. Victims have learned to play a game of sorts on their abusers since they too are often lying. There is no way you can stay with an abusive man or woman and not tell some lies. They force your back up against the wall with their accusations, yelling, passive aggressive demeanor, and other ugly things they do. So you aren't always forthcoming with the truth. You say things to angry abusive people like, "I don't remember...I don't know what you're talking about...I didn't talk with anyone today...I don't know him...her." Meanwhile, a victim knows full well he or she is telling yet another lie, but would you tell the truth if you knew someone had much power over you? From controlling money to transportation, an abuser knows that in order to keep his or her partner close there has to be a long list of do's and don'ts otherwise he or she will lose the upper-hand in the...
Apartment Shopping, Leasing, Rental Tips: Helpful List of What You Don't Need the Next Time ...
On Moving.... Apartment Shopping, Leasing, Rental Tips: Helpful List of What You Don't Need the Next Time ... : What you don't need is another headache, backache, and a pending heart attack when you look at all the stuff you have to move and that m...
