Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate

If I could give you the world On a silver platter Would even matter You'd still be mad at me If I can find in all this A dozen roses Which I would give to you You'd still be miserable In reality I'm gon be who I be And I don't feel no faults For all the lies that you bought You can try as you may Break me down when I say That it ain't up to you Gon on do what you do [Chorus:] Hate on me hater Now or Later Cause I'm gonna do me You'll be made baby (Go head and hate) Go head and hate on me hater I'm not afraid of What I got I paid for You can hate on me... Ooh if I gave you peaches Out of my on garden And I made you a peach pie Would you slap me out? Wonder if I gave you diamonds Out of my own womb Would you feel the love in that Or ask why not the moon? If I gave you sanity For the whole of humanity Had all the solutions to the pain and pollution No Matter Where I live Despite the things I give You'll always be th...

There is an inner voice that all of us human beings have that warns us of things not to say or do. Many of us have this gentle voice inside, but we tend to suffocate it with what we want to do right now. If you are a believer, who has accepted Jesus Christ as your personal Savior, you most likely connect the voice to God, "But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you" (John 14:26, NKJV). However, at times we grieve the Holy Spirit by not listening and obeying. "Do not grieve The Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption" (Ephesians 4:15-16, 30, NKJV). Let's say your instinct tells you during a first meeting with someone, "He's not the one. He cheats. He hurts women . He doesn't care about anyone, but himself." Yet, he distracts your inner voice with a kind deed, great conversation, and promise...

"Debonair, easy-going, friendly, charismatic, a pillar of the community, nice, successful, handsome, gorgeous..." these are just some of the words victims use to describe their former abusive partners.  Even after one hears their stories of pain, manipulation, cheating, lies and more, one look at these abusive people, and the listener is captivated with them too.  Abusive, attractive, yet downright evil people have tricks up their sleeves like magicians performing magic acts, they pride themselves on knowing they have led you into believing something once again that is untrue. What sort of mind game did your manipulator play on you this time?  Was it a made up story about where he really went and who he saw while there?  Maybe it was a false promise that he or she had used for so long to keep your interest.  How about your favorite entertainment or a gift used to distract you to keep you from searching for evidence ...