Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate

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Mom curses, Dad lies, and parents push one another beyond their limits.  A teen watches and he or she waits for the day one is in an argument with his or her boyfriend.  The scenario of heated discussion evolving into relationship violence is repeated.  At some point during the conflict between abusive girlfriend and boyfriend, it starts to feel familiar.  Despite the situation being emotionally and physically upsetting, the pair thinks they are justified in behaving irrationally.  A partner might spit, kick, push, punch, yell while calling his or her victim every name he or she can think of.  It isn't love that is occurring, but war with these young victims.  Where did they learn their abusive behaviors?  From parents, guardians, or grandparents who either took too long to end a bad relationship with a partner or with other family members as well as those who  choose to continue to stay while making excuses for their mean-spirited husbands or wives. Whether the abuse is phys

For those who are sincerely ready to move on with their lives, don't feel alone and avoid the worry and stress that comes when you think no one is going to want you because you suffered so long with someone you should have cut out of your life long ago.  Being single again is definitely a mindset you must take the time to work on before you leave a relationship and while you are on your own once again.  It might feel so overwhelming to think about moving on with your life potentially with someone else, but don't stress about it.  With enough time nurturing yourself, regaining your self esteem, and more, you will be well on your way to a wonderful life! Imagine no longer worrying about where a mate is going and whether or not he or she is telling you the truth.  Picture your money in your bank account slowly being spent your way rather than it rapidly being spent on things that have little to do with you and a lot to do with a miserable mate.  Envision yourself driving your o